No FMMF this Friday…..Starting NEW Series on FEB 3rd

Reminder that we’re taking a break between series this week….with NO MEETING this Friday, JAN 27th.

Our next gathering will be on FEB 3rd when we’ll start our new series, “Mere Christianity” by C.S. Lewis.

Please take the week off to order the book online; it typically sells for around $10 on Amazon.

Homework for the first lesson is to read Book 1: Right and Wrong as a Clue to the Meaning of the Universe.

Need a Study Guide to support your reading?  Here’s a nice outline for all the books of Mere Christianity:  LINK  Please note…this is just one person’s interpretation of Lewis’ book!

Enjoy the week off…don’t forget to do the reading!  : -)


Grace….the Holy Double-Edged Sword??

So, it’s Tuesday after a long weekend and I’m already having one of “those weeks”.  First, one of my sons is so preoccupied with his cell phone, especially social media apps such as Snap Chat and Instagram, that he’s missing out on any instructions that my wife or I are giving him around the house.  And, on top of that, he’s becoming more and more “socially awkward” spending more time with his head in his smart phone screen than noticing what’s going on around him.  Doesn’t seem very “smart” to me, right?

Then, my other son got called into the assistant principal’s office today at school to answer to a parents’ complaint that he was talking inappropriately on the school bus last week!  I need God’s grace to help me….and help them!


So, “grace” as this week’s topic is VERY timely for me and, perhaps, others in our group as well this week.  And if it’s not timely for you…..then just wait!  Your time is coming!

On a serious note, this week marks our final lesson on our current series.  The final lesson notes are on the Resources page at this LINK.  Jon will wrap up our series with “Grace”, the final attribute, and close out the series with a “what did we learn” discussion.

Finally, a reminder that our next series will focus on the C.S. Lewis book, Mere Christianity.  Please pick up a copy of the book in advance.  I ordered one on Amazon yesterday for $10.00!  We’ll start that series on January 27th.

See you this Friday at our normal spot, The Cornwell Center.  Gather at 7:30 am…..ready to go at 7:45 am.


Friday the 13th FMMF….Jason will be there!

Jason Schubert, that is!  Otherwise, don’t let superstition get the best of you and prevent you from coming!

This week, we’re focused on God’s Provision in our series.  You can find the read-ahead materials at this LINK.  Think about what our Heavenly Father provides us.  And then think about what you are providing to your family, especially your children.  We’ll discuss this Friday!

Gather at The Cornwell Center beginning at 7:30 am.  Jon Pascal will lead us starting at 7:45 am.


New Year’s Resolutions Time is Here!

Welcome to 2017, gentlemen!  We’ll meet this Friday, JAN 6th, after taking a couple week’s off for the holidays.  Our lesson for this week is on “God’s Discipline” and you can find the read-ahead materials on the Resources page at this LINK.

I found a great article today about New Year’s Resolutions specific for men (dads and husbands) that I’ve pasted below.  It’s from a site called “All Pro Dad“, which is an effort partly organized by former NFL football coach and player, Tony Dungy.

Enjoy the article, read through the “homework” for this week, and we’ll see you on Friday!  Remember to gather starting at 7:30 am at the Cornwell Center, ready to hit our lesson at 7:45 am.  Jon Pascal will lead our study this week.


A Real New Year’s Resolution:  Becoming a Good Husband and Father

45% of Americans usually make New Year’s resolutions. Of those that try to turn over that new leaf, only 8% of them are successful. Things like lose the weight, get organized, and get fit, are in the top 10 resolutions people make each new calendar year. In the 10th spot was the generic phrase, “spend more time with family.” How is that a priority behind losing weight and being more organized? It should be at the head of the list, and we’ll look at ways to accomplish that.

It is a sincere and aware heart seeking self-improvement that makes a New Year’s resolution. The trouble is, they are often broad and vague promises. In order to get real results, it needs to be broken down into more specific and measurable goals. That way, we can get a true sense of progress in the changes we are trying to make.

Here are but a few New Year’s resolutions that will get you real results, if your goal is to become a good father and husband.

1. Pledge One-on-One Time with Each Child

Your kids love you and want to spend time with you. They need individual attention in addition to the family setting. Pledge to spend time alone with each child on a regular basis. This can be done doing a favorite sport or hobby together or taking them out to do things they are interested in. You can even just hang at home away from gadgets and media. This will get the results of building a closer bond and will enhance your needed influence on their personal growth.

2. Pledge to Listen to Your Family

Regarding family, a lot of men are “Just tell me what I need to know” type people. We don’t like getting bogged down in all the particulars. That works well for time efficiency, but it leaves your family feeling misunderstood and ignored. If your goal is to spend more time with them, this is the first place to start: listen to what both your wife and children need to say.

3. Once a Month Date Night

Your spouse also needs your individual attention, and you certainly need hers. The chaos and busyness of family life can swallow adult relationship time until there’s nothing left. This is a common cause of marital affairs. The more designated time the better, but at the minimum, pledge to have at least one date night per month with your wife.

4. Find People that Challenge You

Men too often have a lone wolf mentality when it comes to asking for help or sharing their stresses. To significantly increase the odds of success with a resolution, we need to find others that will hold us accountable. In my own life, I often lean on my pastor for mentorship when it comes to family and marriage, and I have a core of men behind me that I also trust. I know they will shoot straight with me. Don’t go it alone. Seek out those who’ve done what you’re trying to do and ask for their help.